Creativity In The Bedroom

Consent is extremely important, and you need it for every sexual move that you make. However, explicitly asking for permission can kill the mood. So let’s QBQ it.

How can I make this interaction more intimate while respecting my partner’s boundaries? With this guiding question, use your head — your brain — to ideate a few statements.

For example: “I’ve gotten a good taste of your mouth, but could I try some of the other food on your plate?” The statement is lighthearted, but it clearly expresses your desire to try other sexual activities in a low-pressure mannerism.

I challenge you to come up with your own statements and share them with me! Text me at 419-350-1636 without any context.

P.S. Use your active listening skills to measure your partner’s response, especially if it is not a clear “yes”. Their body language and tone of voice can tell you more than the words they speak.

By: Dylan Fall

Year: Sophomore

Major: SCOM and ETBD

Hometown: Toledo, Ohio

Fun Fact: I have a PADI® Open Water Diver certification